Proverbs 11:14 (NKJV)
Where there is no counsel, the people fall; But in the multitude of counselors there is safety.
Sometimes we need advice. Sometimes we get so emotionally tied up in something, we cannot make good decisions. We need to listen to others. We need to get wise counsel. That is not letting someone else make your decisions for you. It is allowing you to hear perspectives from those who are not so emotionally tied to a decision. And, the time it takes to seek a multitude of wise counselors and hear them will cause you to slow down and not make hasty and unwise decisions.