Paul concludes 1 Corinthians 16 with,
"My love to all of you in Christ Jesus." If you keep all of 1 Corinthians in mind you might be thinking...wait a minute Paul, you have just spent 16 chapters beating the tar out of the Corinthian church...
you call that love? How many ways do you love us Paul? Let's see if we can count them all:)
PROBLEMS IN CORINTH
A problem with unity (1–4. How do Christians preserve the unity of the church in spite of divisive issues and party spirit?
A problem with sin (5–6. How do Christians preserve the purity of the church when members choose to sin? How do we relate to sinning brothers and sisters? How do we relate to non–Christians whose lives are characterized by habitual sin?
A problem with divorce (7. Is it more spiritual to divorce than remain married? What if one’s spouse deserts him or her?
A problem with disputes over doctrine (8–10. How do we deal with doctrinal differences in the church? Is there a way to resolve them? Can we live in harmony with people who differ from us doctrinally?
Problems with women and worship (11. What is the place of women in church meetings? What is the significance of the Lord’s Supper?
Problems with spirituality (12–14. What is true spirituality? How does spirituality relate to spiritual gifts? What is the role of the gift of tongues in church meetings?
Problems with resurrection (15. How important is resurrection in Christianity? What will our resurrection be like?
It is amazing, Paul has beat on this poor church for 16 chapters...I am sure they suffered some kind of post traumatic abuse syndrome...too bad they did not have a support group for them to attend. Then Paul has the audacity to encourage them by saying in 1 Cor 15:58 "Therefore, my beloved brethren, be steadfast, immovable, always abounding in the work of the Lord, knowing that your labor is not in vain in the Lord." Paul follows that exhortation with this string of encouraging words in 16:13-14, "Watch, stand fast in the faith, be brave, be strong. 14 Let all that you do be done with love."
I hope you were able to detect my sarcasm! You may be thinking that I should not be sarcastic...I will only say that I believe it is an often overlooked spiritual gift:) If you disagree...consider Elijah at Mount Carmel or God's line of questions for Job...I'm sorry, but there is some sarcasm in both passages:)
Back to the point...actually what Paul did for the church in Corinth was incredibly loving! It would not be politically correct today, but it is and was loving!
If you ask my boys (9 & 7), what would it mean if your Daddy did not spank you and discipline you? They will tell you that it means that he does not love us. I was excited on the day when they understood that truth. I did not say that they liked it, but they understood it as we looked at Proverbs 13:24, "He who withholds his rod hates his son, But he who loves him disciplines him diligently."
There are many times where Paul takes an unpopular stand for the truth. He teaches us in Ephesians 4:15, that we are to speak the truth, but we are to speak the truth in love..."but speaking the truth in love, we are to grow up in all aspects into Him who is the head, even Christ." I have witnessed the truth being used as a club...I have witnessed husbands and wives beating each other with God's words. You have to know that HE is grieved to watch HIS precious Word being abused to hurt one of HIS own!
You may recall Paul's words in Gal 4:16, where he asks the Galatians, "have I become your enemy by telling you the truth?"
Let me bring this close to home...I may step on your toes and I know I will step on my own. How should I say this? Every child of God has a responsibility to his/her brothers and sisters in the Lord. Those in leadership roles especially have a responsibility to God's children, but let me say again, every child of God has a responsibility to his/her brothers and sisters in the Lord.
So often after a brother or sister falls into sin you will hear someone say "I knew that he would do that, I knew that was going to happen to him, you could see it coming." When I hear that I burn with anger and want to scream at the top of my lungs and say..."YOU KNEW, YOU KNEW...THEN FOR GOD'S SAKE WHY DIDN'T YOU DO SOMETHING, WHY DIDN'T YOU STOP HIM? YOU ARE LIABLE! You may respond to me, but Mark, I know him, he would not have listened. THAT DOES NOT EXCUSE YOU FROM DELIVERING THE MESSAGE! WHAT DID GOD SAY TO EZEKIEL?
Ezekiel 3:16-21 After seven days the Lord gave me a message. He said, 17 “Son of man, I have appointed you as a watchman for Israel. Whenever you receive a message from me, warn people immediately. 18 If I warn the wicked, saying, ‘You are under the penalty of death,’ but you fail to deliver the warning, they will die in their sins. And I will hold you responsible for their deaths. 19 If you warn them and they refuse to repent and keep on sinning, they will die in their sins. But you will have saved yourself because you obeyed me.
20 “If righteous people turn away from their righteous behavior and ignore the obstacles I put in their way, they will die. And if you do not warn them, they will die in their sins. None of their righteous acts will be remembered, and I will hold you responsible for their deaths. 21 But if you warn righteous people not to sin and they listen to you and do not sin, they will live, and you will have saved yourself, too.”
Father in heaven,
We come to YOU in the name of our LORD and SAVIOR, JESUS CHIRST, JESUS YOU ARE THE WAY, THE TRUTH AND THE LIFE...enable us, YOUR children by the filling of your Holy Spirit to speak the truth in love, enable us to understand that "All Scripture is given by inspiration of God, and is profitable for doctrine, for reproof, for correction, for instruction in righteousness, 17 that the man of God may be complete, thoroughly equipped for every good work."
Father, use us so then, while we have opportunity, that we will do good to all people, and especially to those who are of the household of the faith.
Accomplish this for YOUR glory and our JOY in YOU!
love,
m